Friday, December 14, 2012

Acceptance

Many a times we struggle in fighting our demons. Our mind plays constant games with us and we put a lot of pressure on ourselves. Long hours of introspection, sleepless nights – all for something which might in the end be not worth being so worried about.


I think a lot of us end up taking life too seriously and live in the anticipation of the perfectness of it. The fact is that life will never be perfect and the beauty of it lies in it’s imperfectness. The unknown challenges that it keeps throwing always keeps us on the edge and the hope of a brighter tomorrow fuels our belief to carry on.

The key here is acceptance. We should be able to embrace the good and the not so good aspects of life with open arms. If we are able to do so, we will not get intimidated easily and therefore will have less demons to struggle with.

PS: There are things that we can change, we should have the strength to do it. There are things that we can’t, we should have the humility to accept that. And we should have the good sense to know the difference between the two.

Thursday, December 6, 2012

Homecoming


8 years after passing out from school, I relived some of those great moments again at the Platinum Jubilee Celebrations at Welham. Half my batch had made it for the event and it was 4 days of crazy fun, catching up on old times. It seemed we never left.

Though the school has changed immensely since then, the essence still remains the same. No matter what new boundaries or buildings you build, no matter how many principals, teachers and batches come and go, the essence of a Welham manages to remain the same. What more, even the samosa, sandwich, tea and coffee still taste the same as they did 20 years ago.

It was heartening to revisit the hostels where we spent so much time, see our beds, meet the bearers who still managed to remember us even after so many years, be a part of assembly and read the prayer and sing the hymn.

It’s a connect that’ll remain forever and all I wish is if I could go back in time and relive those days.   

Friday, November 23, 2012

Just a Thought: Twenty One

In the balance scale
Faith & belief far outweigh all logics and reasoning

Thursday, November 8, 2012

Sustenance

The weather in Delhi has tried it’s best to make the festive season a bit hazy, but the spirits don’t seem to be slacking. There’s an atmosphere of celebration and people are really looking forward to the Diwali break.

However, what people are not looking forward to is the reality about environmental sustenance. There’s a lot of talk around green & sustainable energy and companies are driving initiatives around it (GE and Mahindra for example). However, the governments and individuals seem to be lacking the enthusiasm that is needed to push these initiatives wherein they would really make an impact. Too little is being done in few pockets. The need of the hour is to look at the menace of pollution at a war footing else we might be in a situation where we might need to wear oxygen masks to walk out.

Friday, October 12, 2012

Just a Thought: Twenty

The burden of Karma carries with you
And is your only companion
As you walk away into oblivion

Wednesday, September 5, 2012

Hand of God

I'm not referring Maradonna's hand but the ubiquitous hand of the pedestrians in NCR. It's the ultimate weapon that they possess. No matter what the situation is, how heavy or fast moving the traffic is, the hand of god will be out and everything else is supposed to stop and make way for them.

I understand that the traffic etiquette and rules are not pedestrian friendly but at least they can wait for an appropriate moment to step in instead of just barging on the road with their ever so powerful hand. I also understand that India is a power hungry nation and everyone likes to practice whatever power they can. So till the time I find a more powerful weapon than the hand of god, happy braking and hopefully happy driving.

Tuesday, September 4, 2012

Just a Thought: Nineteen

Higher education is a myth
And life after that more so

Friday, August 17, 2012

Just a Thought: Eighteen

The rain washes away the dust
Bringing to the fore the hidden beauty
But leaving below the remains of things best left untouched

Monday, August 13, 2012

The First Puff

Digging out a piece I wrote in class X - 2001

The youth ran through his veins
He wished to break all refrains
He wanted to try something new
Without raising much cry & hue
The feeling of adulthood crept into him
He became the master of a new whim
He went to his companion's room
Unknowingly inviting his doom
Choking, suffocating the atmosphere was
The first puff fulfilled his cause
He choked, he coughed, he felt the heat
For him it was a great feat
The first puff will not be easy to forget
Coz 20 years later he now regrets 

Saturday, July 21, 2012

A Goodbye

On a lazy Saturday morning I was going through some of my pale yellow papers and found one which is very close to my heart and which has never been shared with anyone.  Now could be an appropriate moment as this year Welham celebrates 75 years and all of us are remembering the good old days. Below is the graduation speech which I never got a chance to deliver:

On 25th March 1992, 26 boys with dreamy eyes came to Welham unaware of what this place held in store for them. All they came with were their aspirations and dreams. They had come to a place which would be their second home, Little did one of those little boys know that 12 memorable years would lead him to this podium, speaking on the occasion of the graduation ceremony.

Speaking about memorable incidents in Welham will take an entire lifetime. Each moment spent here has been exceptional and memorable. From hilarious talks with friends, amusing interactions with teachers, the much awaited mid-term breaks to the high spirited inter house matches.

Welham teaches one to be independent. Independence which is very necessary to build up the character of a person. From this freedom - integrity, confidence, self-respect and sincerity creeps into a Welhamite and enables him to face every situation in life boldly.

Another important aspect of time spent in Welham is the friends made here. Staying together and growing up with friends has developed a unique bond between us. We've been together here in times of fun, happiness as well as times of crisis. This standing by each other in every situation has given us life long friends.

As boards are starting in 2 days, class 10 & 12 should keep this in mind that boards are not the beginning and end of life. There's much more to life than one examination. Doing well in them is obviously essential but if can't do well by any chance, then one shouldn't get depressed. One's potential is not determined by these exams but by the determination and self belief one has. If one has faith, one will definitely do well in life.

When we were in Junior school and use to see our seniors feeling bad when they left school, we used to wonder how one can feel bad when one's leaving school. We said to ourselves that we'll be the happiest people on earth the day we leave, but today when the day of leaving beckons us, all of us are going through the emotions our seniors had undergone.

Today is a day that bridges the secured life led by students in school and the challenging life out of school for which they have been prepared all these years. It's a day filled with nostalgia and excitement. Nostalgia for leaving the place from where one learnt traits of life, nostalgia for parting with a place that will be connected with life's best memories and nostalgia for parting with friends who one might never again see in life but there is a certain excitement also as one looks forward to the new life which one will lead in college. Now one can venture into unexplored avenues and further the knowledge acquired in school. Today one looks back with fondness the unforgettable moments lived in school and numerous things learnt here, today one has to think of the present as performing in boards is of prime importance and today one has to think of his future, so this day comes and brings with it a lot of memories and responsibilities.

On behalf of class 12 I would like to thank and express gratitude tom all the teachers that have taught us over the years and molded us into capable young men that we are today. It is due to their patient hard work with us that we'll be walking out with pride from Welham. I also take this opportunity to wish class 10&12 best of luck for their exams and wish each one passes with flying colors.

Thank you.


Saturday, July 7, 2012

Just a Thought: Seventeen

The mist laden horizon soothes the beauty starved eyes
As the imperfectness is lost behind the haze 

Saturday, June 30, 2012

Exhilaration

A steady momentum Synchronized breathing
A will to carry on
A droplet on the forehead
A missed breath
Rising temperature
A light feeling
Release of Endorphins

Exhilaration!!

Monday, June 4, 2012

The circus of point 1


With every new dawn, the search for the insignificant begins. Trying to find meaning in the most meaningless things, just to feel good about your puny existence. By just taking a step back and pausing, one realizes how futile the daily grind could be when measured honestly with the things that really matter to one, but then again who has time for all that.

A point one here and a point one there is where we are lost. 

Thursday, May 24, 2012

Humbling

I went to a school supported by a NGO today as a GE Volunteer for a community service event. It was a very humbling experience for me to see the intelligence, spark, enthusiasm and zest for life in the kids despite the various hard ships that they and their family have to face on a daily basis.

It's so easy for us to take for granted so many privileges that we have and crib for things that the majority of the human race can't even think of. It's days like these that bring me back to reality and makes me realize how lucky I am for which i should be grateful.

With this thought I hope to get some spark that i saw in the eyes of the wonderful kids today.

Monday, May 14, 2012

Inside Out


Every once in a while you look within
Searching for peace in the din
For answers which may be all around
But can’t be found due to the shaky ground
Look around and you’ll find
The world's going through a tougher grind
The tunnel’s visit is no big wonder
For some short, for some longer
Look in or look out
The demons are yours, have a bout 

Friday, April 27, 2012

Just a Thought : Sixteen

A bump in the road is not an obstacle
It just helps you to pause and think

Sunday, April 15, 2012

A fine Line

Virtue at times is over-rated.

I would like to use 2 examples to explain why I say this. One is from Mahabharat and which laid the foundation of The Gita. Arjun was in a dilemma of how he can fight his brothers and the natural instinct of being virtuous was clouding his thought process. That's when Lord Krishna's discourse very brilliantly brings out how being virtuous is important but living by it in all circumstances might not be the wisest thing to do. To fight for one's right at times tough calls have to be taken.

Similarly, in the bestseller - Immortals of Meluha the army chief Parvateshwar is in a constant battle to do what he should as the army chief or follow the orders and laws which as a law abiding Meluhan he should do. This constant strife is there because following the law and orders or being virtuous is of prime importance no matter what and when Shiva tries to change that there are conflicts of opinion. 

Can't say which of the two are right but there's a fine line between being smart in using your discretion for the larger good at the cost of being "non -virtuous" and mis-using it for own convenience. I would re-use my favorite line here - the best things in life are grey and not black or white. How the grey is made from the black or white is where the point is.       

Monday, March 19, 2012

Just a Thought: Fifteen

Organisations & systems have the ability to kill creativity
To kill the risk appetite
And to kill the belief in a leap of faith

Friday, February 17, 2012

Just a Thought: Fourteen

Past tense, Present tense, Future tense
Have we taken grammar too seriously?

Saturday, January 28, 2012

Wiser?

You try. You fail. You learn.
You try again. You fail again. Hopefully you learn again.
All covered you try again. You fail again.

Wiser?
Well you never know what can screw you.

Thursday, January 12, 2012

T - Point

Cruising on the highway of life
A T-point suddenly slows you down
Pausing to think which side to turn
Where fate may smile or frown
Where the decision sways between the heart and the mind
The direction may not be easy to find
To weather on or weather away
To stay put or simply sway
But whichever path you finally tread
Make sure that you don’t regret