Most of us spend the bulk of our lives in the pursuit
of happiness. As a result we shy away from anything that brings us sorrow or try
to avoid those situations. As an optimist I would try to look at the positive
side of all situations and drive away all negativity. Putting up a brave face in such situations is
also something that most “positive thinking” people would suggest.
Though this is what even I would do but embracing
sorrow at times is not such a bad idea. Loosening the tough façade and exposing
the emotions can actually do wonders at times. Just like yin and yang,
happiness and sorrow go hand in hand and together the two can do wonders.
I’m not suggesting that one becomes a grieving bore,
all I’m suggesting is that embrace the difficult times with equal graciousness
as the good times as both are equally important in building one’s personality,
character and “core memories”. This concept is very beautifully shown in the
movie – “Inside Out” and I recommend
that everyone should watch the movie.
P.S. : Keep
smiling as it’s contagious but don’t be shy to shed a tear once in a while
